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Explains the science of sexual desire and arousal
Introduces the “dual control model” of sexual response
Explores the impact of stress, context, and emotional safety
Provides evidence-based tools to support pleasure and wellbeing
Updated with new research on mindfulness and sexual satisfaction
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Emily Nagoski is a sex educator and researcher with a PhD in health behaviour and human sexuality. She previously served as Director of Wellness Education at Smith College and is known for translating scientific research into accessible guidance on sexual wellbeing.
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Author: Dr Emily Nagoski, PhD
Format: Paperback (physical book)
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Publication Date: 2 March 2021
Language: English
Print Length: 400 pages
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Women seeking a science-based understanding of sexuality
Couples wanting to improve communication and intimacy
Individuals navigating changes in desire or sexual confidence
Healthcare professionals supporting women’s sexual wellbeing
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This book is educational in nature and does not provide medical advice. Readers experiencing ongoing sexual health concerns should consult a qualified healthcare professional.
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Readers of Come As You Are explore topics such as:
how sexual desire works in the brain
the role of stress, mood and environment in arousal
understanding responsive versus spontaneous desire
improving communication and intimacy in relationships
building confidence and comfort with sexual wellbeing
The book introduces the “dual control model”, which explains sexual response through two systems: one that accelerates arousal and one that inhibits it.
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Author: Emily Nagoski, PhD
Format: Paperback
Category: Sexual health and relationships
Pages: approximately 400
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Edition: Revised and updated
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What is the book Come As You Are about?
It explains the science of sexual desire and how emotional context, stress and relationships influence sexual wellbeing.Who should read Come As You Are?
The book is widely recommended for women, couples and healthcare professionals interested in understanding sexual wellbeing.Is this the updated version of the book?
Yes. The revised edition includes additional research and updated explanations of sexual response and desire.