Outercourse, Soft Penetration and Soft Cock Sex: The How-To Guide
When my erections went limp at the age of 61 after prostate surgery, I got the advice “try outercourse.” But when I asked how to do “outercourse” in practice, I found few answers. So, my wife (then 66) and I experimented. After a lot of awkwardness, we began to discover a lot of fun was possible for full body sexual intimacy with and without soft penetration. And I talked to lots of other men in similar situations all round the world. It’s common – 60% of all men over 60 have some kind of erectile difficulties whether or not they were treated for prostate cancer. Most are trapped in bemoaning their losses, instead of creating fresh sexuality in their new bodies.
Here’s what came out of our own experience, and the detailed stories of hundreds of other soft cock owners and their partners. It includes solo and partnered sex with all genders. My short, direct book is full of practical illustrations on how to have good sex with a soft cock.
You can get the book Beyond Erections: sexual pleasure and intimacy with erectile differences in both e-Book and paperback versions via this link: https://mybook.to/BeyondErections, and here: https://www.passionfruitshop.com.au/collections/books-and-erotica/products/soft-cock-sex . The eBook is great for privacy; the paperback can be fun to read together with your partner.
What you get in the book:
The mental and emotional journey back to feeling sexy after your body has changed.
Pages and pages of practical guides: what to do in sexual situations with a soft cock, including both solo and partnered sex, soft cock penetration and many variations of fun and sexy outercourse.
Your soft cock may be here for a reason, or a season, or for the rest of your life. It invites you to open up to new kinds of sexual satisfaction. The chapter entitled “Satisfaction” outlines how to have full-body orgasmic pleasure without being limited by erectile differences.
The book also invites you into a community at beyonderections.com where you don’t walk alone, where others tell their stories with disarming frankness, and new ideas emerge frequently. It includes a rich set of resources, downloads, articles and videos that is updated frequently.
I am now six years post prostatectomy and my wife, and I have probably the most satisfying sex – for both of us – that we have ever had. And rather surprisingly, after 6 years, my erections are getting a bit firmer and more durable too. I am glad we didn’t simply have a six-year sex drought. Maybe all the soft cock sex kept it alive while the body recovered.
